Thursday, August 19, 2010
i was seriously bored man...few days i was uncertain...mood swings all the time..depressed at times..what is actually happening to me, is every girls out there feeling the same some times..or is it just me? trying to get myself occupied, busy doing something just anything to stop myself from thinking nonsense. when you're just a kid you just imagine then it just come true??why? it's because you believe it will happen..why cant we do it now? you might say kids...pfft~~ immature ..but at least they believe that everything will happen as they wished.. why we cant do the same way like we do when we're just a kid?maybe you might say cause this is reality of the world?kids they believe..why cant we do the same thing..believe in what ever you do..and dreams will come true..BUT dont just dream, it all counts action in it to pursue that kind of dream.
watched inception...more like a live in a dream in a dream in a dream...it may seem complicated..complications in it...but the effects in it are just simply amazing..what if you have that ability to live in a dream .....you can live in that dream with your loved ones?
but at times you might think it's just a dream you still gotta wake up from that dream and face the reality........
i don't know why i fall in love those sentimental and emo songs...the very ones...recently i fell in love with a song..korean. G.na-Gguhjeo joolgae jal sahra.....it's obvious sad, emotional kind of song...
some times i just don't get myself
why am i in love with these kind of songs..yes it's meaningful but sad ones?
funny huh?even i dont get myself..
if i can i wanna go out every single day..i want to spend more time with my loved
one, my bf...i love him damn much probably he never knew...i never loved
someone that much..pour every single of my love to him. what if he never notice
that???i just wanna spend more time with him...after my 3rd semester start all
of us are separated into our majors... probably even more hectic than ever..wont
be having the time to spend together i wanted to take this opportunity to just
spend with you..after that, i just wanna pour every single second for you..just for
you..maybe im just not understanding enough i felt that im very immature for
things that ever happen between us...
when you loved someone...jealousy, selfishness, all kind of flaws.....
at times passed all kinds of stuff turn up...when you not shy anymore towards
each other, got those kinds of guts to express our feelings towards each other,
arguments turn up and yeahh tears lingering and people might thought
it's raining on a sunny day.....thunders striking between clouds represents
arguments...and yeah end up raining ..and you know what that represents....tears..
these natural phenomenon could be the natural thing for human like us..hahaha
a page come across...and it's pretty true for some of it....
Is It Love :
What Girls Want :
General stuff
Guys, every girl is different, and we all want different things. There's no magical answer that's going to tell you exactly how to treat your girl. However, there's a couple guidelines that you should probly follow to figure out what it is your girl needs from you.
1. Protection: Girls like to be protected by guys. It's in our instincts to go for a man who we think will be able to provide for us and look after us. HOWEVER, this does not mean we want someone who think's we're a piece of glass who need to be protected from everything, including ourselves. You have to give us enough space to be ourselves, but genereally listen you your girl and try to figure out what she needs. Ask yourself, "Does she look like she wants me to protect her, or can she handle this on her own?" Some girls are independent and can take care of themselves most of the time. This doesn't mean that they don't need you, it just means they don't want to feel weak or "girly" and needy. They still need your support. Vice versa, some girls like to be taken care of 24/7. I'm sure this would get frustrating for some guys, because those girls have been described as being needy. If your girl needs you to protect her and take care of her all the time, and you get annoyed by that, try to give her a break and realize that that's just the way she is, and if you really love her then you will be who she needs you to be. If you can't do that, maybe you're not the right guy for her.
2. Romance: Again, every girl has her own personal taste in this category. Some things you might think are romantic she wouldn't consider to be, and sometimes the things she wants you to do in the way of romance you see as unneccesary and soppy. Also, some girls don't need a lot of romance, some do. Its unique to everyone. The basic idea, again, is to listen to her and pay attention, especially in the early stages of your relationship. Lots of times, girls will try to hint to guys that they like/ are in a relationship with the things that they feel would be romantic, or things that they would want you to do for them. If you're paying attention, you might want to think about doing one or two of them for her. Not only will it be the kind of romance she wants, but you also prove that you pay attention and listen to her. Girls don't want to have to tell you what they want. They want you to figure it out on your own, we see it as a test of your love and as more romantic if you can do it by yourself. Do your best as far as this one goes, guys, I know its a tough one.
Fun: THE KEY TO GIRLS IS FUN!! Most girls don't want to have a relationship where you constantly talk about your love and devotion and you go out to fancy restaurants all the time and everything whenever you're together is about love and stuff. Take the time to relax and have fun once in a while, and she'll love you for it. When guys start going down the "Serious" road too early, girls have a tendency to think that they're no fun and/or get scared by the level of deepness thats going on. That kind of stuff is important, but taking the time to just have a blast can strengthen your relationship so much. it allows you to have time to build the core friendship that should be the building block of your love.
Compliments: Girls like to be complimented, but ONLY IF YOU MEAN IT!! Girls have this amazing ability to see through false compliments and ones that are made just because you think you should say them. Doing this is a guaruntee to making her think you're just complimenting her to make conversation, and she's not gonna respect you for that. On the other hand, girls will absolutely ADORE you if you say nice things about them (not just physical, btw, mental and personality-wise too!) and they can tell you actually MEAN them. Tons of brownie points for those! But remember, don't go too deep with all this, because you may scare her off. See Fun above. :-)
Comfort: When you're girl is feeling down on herself or about life in general, you're going to have to figure out your own way to make her feel better. But, being cute and nice are usually a good place to start. Start off by listening to her, ask her to tell you what's bothering her and listen to what she has to say. Dont interupt unless it looks like she wants you too. Just let her know you're there for her. When she's done, pull her in close to you and let her cry if she needs to, and be sweet and caring toward her. Give her any bits of advice you may have on her situation, but don't lecture her. You're just trying to make her feel better. Finish off by telling her that you love her no matter what, and that you'll always be there for her. You better mean it, or it'll come off badly. If you're not going to mean it, just tell her she's wonderful in your eyes and nothing's going to change that. Then its a good idea to find some sort of chocolate or ice cream and fix it up for her, and then do something fun with her.
Ok. i think that's it for today's blog...surprised you guys stuck this long with me..im tired..chaos..
with XOXO
carmen
10:46 PM
